A HEALING Guide for gay christians looking for hope
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Are you LGBTQ+ and raised Christian or in a religion that made you feel condemned,
leaving you with guilt, shame, and having to choose being being gay and loving God?
You are not alone and you’ve come to the right place. I’m here to help you start your healing journey. Download the guide and start your journey today to self-acceptance and connection with your loving Creator.
Support & Resource Guide for
Gay Christians and LGBTQ+ People of Faith
Feeling torn between your faith and your LGBTQ+ identity? This 51-page LGBTQ+ Support & Resource Guide was created to help you heal and go from confusion to clarity. Inside, you’ll find my personal testimony (being raised Evangelical), and the steps I took to become more confident in my identity all while getting closer to God. I’ll suggest books, podcasts, people, and communities that help educate you, connect you and heal you. Download this resource guide and start your healing journey today.
WHAT YOU’LL GET
LGBTQ+ SUPPORT & RESOURCE GUIDE
The LGBTQ+ Support and Resource Guide is designed for LGBTQ+ Christians who are ready to stop feeling torn between their faith and their identity. This guide is more than a list of books and podcasts — it’s a compassionate roadmap for healing, self-acceptance, and spiritual connection. Each section is created to help you release shame, gain clarity, and discover a sense of belonging in your faith and in your life.
Inside you’ll find:
Curated books that offer guidance, understanding, and hope for gay Christians
Podcasts and media that inspire, challenge, and uplift your heart. LGBTQ+ affirming
Stories of real gay Christians who have navigated the same struggles and found peace
Practical tools and prompts to reflect, journal, and process your feelings
A personal testimony from me that models a slower, grace-filled path toward self-acceptance
and healing
This guide meets you where you are — whether you feel lost, hurt, or conflicted — and helps you take small, meaningful steps toward freedom, clarity, and a deeper connection with your loving Creator.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Lauren Lanzaretta is a singer, songwriter, and proud gay Christian who knows what it’s like to feel torn between faith and identity. Raised in an evangelical Christian environment, Lauren spent years wrestling with shame, guilt, and self-doubt as she navigated her sexuality alongside her faith. Music became her refuge and her voice, a way to process pain and celebrate authenticity.
Driven by her own journey of healing, Lauren created the podcast You Can Be Both to help others who are walking the same path. Through candid conversations, personal stories, and interviews with affirming voices, she offers guidance, hope, and a safe space for LGBTQ+ Christians seeking to reconcile faith and identity. Lauren’s mission is simple: to show others that it’s possible to embrace both who they are and the loving Creator who made them.
ABOUT THE PODCAST
You Can Be Both is a podcast for LGBTQ+ Christians navigating the tension between faith and identity. Host Lauren Lanzaretta shares her personal journey, interviews affirming voices, and offers encouragement, guidance, and hope for anyone seeking to embrace both who they are and their relationship with God.
THE ‘YOU CAN BE BOTH’ PODCAST
SUPPORT THE CAUSE
We’re doing so much more in 2026 — live events, online workshops, community gatherings, and resources designed to support LGBTQ+ Christians on their journey of healing and self-acceptance. Every event, every resource, and every conversation we create has the power to save lives and offer hope to those who need it most.
If this work resonates with you, your support makes it possible. Even a small contribution helps us continue reaching people who are struggling, isolated, or searching for a safe space to belong. If you’d like to support our mission, you can donate via Venmo: @youcanbeboth
Together, we can make a real difference — helping more people heal, find clarity, and embrace both who they are and the loving Creator who made them.
GET THE GUIDE AND BEGIN YOUR HEALING JOURNEY
This lgbtq+ christian guide will help you heal and create a life of peace
Life is precious and life is short. Don’t spend any more time suffering alone, confused, worried about what people think, torn, and forced to choose between being gay and loving God. This guide will help start the healing journey. Download it today and join our community. You are not alone. I love you, God loves you and you have a whole community that loves you.